LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (2)

[dwh15]

That's just nuts and scary but unfortunately a typical tactic of a WW. Sometimes they get advice to make up false domestic violence charges from their divorced "friends" or even an attorney. It's a very dirty trick, but speaks to the mindset of a wayward.

Protect yourself immediately. That means you carry a VAR (Voice Activated Recorder) in your pocket at all times. They can be found online for under $40, and will record conversations, which can be used to verify actual events and conversations if you need to defend yourself to the police or a court. I would also avoid all physical contact with your W, unless you are in public or have reliable adult witnesses who can testify. Not sure how you manage this while living in the same house, but you need to avoid her as much as possible. Definitely do not touch her in any way, even if it's just brushing past in a hallway. I've even heard of WW's who draw the H into an argument, then give themselves bruises or scratches as "proof" that they were abused. You can't trust her at all right now. I would be talking to an attorney ASAP and taking action to get HER to leave the house. At this point, it's almost a given that one of you two is moving out. Don't let her have the upper hand.