Mona, at the moment, I totally get where you're coming from. My H is treating me so badly...just want to end this pain, move on, get out...
But...
How will I feel in one month, one year, two years? If I don't stand and fight, I'll never know. That will haunt me for the rest of my life. Darn it.
I will be on this journey with you - reluctantly DBing. I will hate myself forever if I don't. I never would have imagined my biggest battle would be with myself!
I find myself being lured into the Divorce Trap...and I know better! Sounds like you're in a similar position.
Really proud of you for making such a tough decision. I'll be looking to you for wisdom.