Mona, at the moment, I totally get where you're coming from. My H is treating me so badly...just want to end this pain, move on, get out...

But...

How will I feel in one month, one year, two years? If I don't stand and fight, I'll never know. That will haunt me for the rest of my life. Darn it.

I will be on this journey with you - reluctantly DBing. I will hate myself forever if I don't. I never would have imagined my biggest battle would be with myself!

I find myself being lured into the Divorce Trap...and I know better! Sounds like you're in a similar position.

Really proud of you for making such a tough decision. I'll be looking to you for wisdom.


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti