Becoming the Anchor, Part 2

[Mona52]

((((Judy))))
I can't really help you other than a great big hug right now. I am thinking of you and I know you can get to the other end of this. He might call OW if you dont call. He might call OW if he sees the toothpaste tube squeezed from the middle. He might call OW if he stubs his toe. No matter what you do, or dont do he might call OW.

She is not you, and she never, ever will be.

He might be wondering what you are doing right now. He might finally have cause to worry that his actions have lost you. He might act in a manner to get you back if he has these feelings. If you call him, he will never have a chance to feel these feelings. So not calling is always a better idea.

And you not calling him is hard, but not the hardest thing. I think the hardest part is dealing with the fact that he did not call you. ouch! I feel the same way. freaking ouch!

All that pain means is that you are still relying on him. It is a mental rubber band that you need to obsess about something else, like you for instance.

ok,ok, one more hug before I go (((JUDY)))