This is not territory I'm familiar with so don't have much advice. Hoping a bump will get you the advice you're looking for! You have to do what is right for you, for me I think I would be more comfortable with any inappropriate friendships being "officially" ended.

Wish you all the best! Patience really does pay off!

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since