Think snarling dog in the corner. Be kind to it, but be above it dear Mustard.
Happy for your GAL. It is good stuff to anchor perspective, right? Hugs.
That is a good image to keep in mind. Thanks.
I had a fun GAL last night with the meetup group. The food was fantastic, the music was great, and the comedy was funny. The headliner hit on me at the end of the show which started out flattering, then got embarrassing. One of the women with my group was wonderfully assertive and told him I wasn't ready to date, after I told him I am still married a number of times. He still tried to give me his number after, but I took that as my cue to leave. I need to learn to be assertive like that woman. One good thing about being S is that I can use the "I'm married" line at my convenience. But it still doesn't always work.
I wonder what it is that changes in a person that shows the world they are available. I would say the lack of a wedding ring is a clue, but I haven't worn a wedding ring for most of my marriage because I lost it 10 years ago. And my engagement ring broke 2 years before my marriage fell apart. Yet, I never was approached by men. Now it happens a lot. Maybe I have some sort of look of freedom now?
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17
