Scanned through the resources. Very comprehensive!
Identified many abusive aspects in my previous marriage. I scanned very quickly and I am not sure if it has been mentioned before, but there is a very strong stigma attached to being abused.
XH's outbursts would always leave me feeling humiliated. And I would often hid myself in the house and engage in anti-social behaviour in the neighbourhood because I just couldn't look anyone in the eye. On the other hand, XH could go on with life, even though the whole neighbourhood had witnessed the screaming rampages.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
