I'm trying to take her coldness as similar to splashing cold water on my face in the morning. It wakes you up, gets the blood flowing, enables you to start the day, start living one way or another.
I like that description. I guess it works not just with my XH, but with any other unpleasant people that I come into contact with.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
