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Re: Becoming the Anchor, Part 2
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Strong? LOL
At the moment I could pass for a sprinkler system!
Letting it all out is a sign of strength, if you ask me.
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Seriously freaking out about not contacting H. What if he decides my silence means I don't forgive him, so he calls OW?
Crap. So easy to see into other situations, where is my brain when it comes to mine?
Help...check in, or let him wonder?
Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015
"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti
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Re: Becoming the Anchor, Part 2
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I wouldn't, but I haven't done well tonight. Not sure I would take my suggestions. You will do great though. Thanks for being there for me! You are a great person. Let him wonder.
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Don't call him! The phone works both ways, you know, he could call you if he was worried. Do Not Call Him.
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Photo...I'm freaking out. What if he leaps to conclusions and calls OW?
Wait! Stop sign. If he does, I call attorney. He's obviously not committed to working on things.
That...so depressing.
Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015
"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti
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You can do this Judy. Deep breaths and a nice bath to relax you. Then get some sleep. You need to take care of yourself first, right?
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Thank you, D. That is exactly what I'm going to do. I've been sobbing most of the day. I'm tired of so many things right now.
Rest. That is what I need.
You're a brilliant man!
Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015
"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti
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Lol. I needed that chuckle!
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Ancaire,
Photoka is right. The phone works both ways. Hang in there. I wish I new these techniques when WW and I were still talking.
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EA: Started 3/2015
MC Started: 4/2015
She moved out and served 6/2015
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"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."
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He never called.
My boys are really upset about something, and won't talk to me. I know they talked to H earlier. I have a really bad feeling...
Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015
"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti
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