That I understand. I'm struggling tonight, too. Do I check in with H, or not? If I do, it could be pursuit. If I don't, H might think I'm over him, and contact OW again. I don't know what I should do.

Any thoughts?

Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti