I wanted to say a few words about online dating. First and foremost, TIMING is everything. You have to be on the right site at the right time and so does your potential new love. Kuddos to those of you who were able to find that. I have not and have chosen to get out and do things I want to do. I always felt like I was "selling" myself online and that just never felt right. Somewhere along the line I chose men who were narcissists and emotionally unavailable. I had to step back and take a long hard look at myself. I spent some time in Greece this past summer and then returned to do some therapy. I know many people who have met wonderful people online and I know just as many with crazy experiences like I've had. I guess there's a new book called, Modern Romance, that talks about how 'disposable' relationships are due to online dating. I have it on hold at my library. I've joined a Mountain Club here in Colorado and I'm attending several meetup groups. If it's meant to happen, it will. It's nice to hear everyone's stories. I'm enjoying life out here in Colorado and waiting for the snow to start. My guy is out there and coming...I truly believe that.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10