Talking to her isn't an option. Right now we are in the middle of figuring out the financial stuff and it is very sticky right now. Also I did attend an event this past Saturday but I really wasn't into it. I am wondering if people worry about the weekends.
Your thoughts are creating what you perceive to be your reality, that's why weekends feel ominous to you. The fact is, they are fine, plan stuff to do during them, take a walk, visit somewhere you really like, go see a friend for a drink...
Thoughts aren't real they are simply thoughts. Work with reality.
If you are figuring out finances, use the time to connect with your W, by completing the discussions it does not mean it will definitely end in D, anything can happen. If you make things a struggle, it'll only antagonise and inflame the sitch. At the same time don't give in to every request, work out what it is that you want and work towards it, calm and compassionately.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
