Hi CaliGuy. Exactly, I am not a mind reader. She shared that that’s the type of support she needs/wants. Someone who will do something without being told/asked, someone who will do it just because they want too but she knows that’s not me. She was using this to illustrate to me an example of how I only think of myself (ie. went to work) vs her needs (ie. didn’t take time-off to go to first appt); I have to agree with her in that respect (I am POOR at this no matter who it is but I am working to improve myself).
I have stood my ground before in a sincere and honest tone sharing that I see my fault which led us to current sit but I did not open that door and push her into A; that was her choice.
