Beckyb, you've kind of said what you need to do yourself.
You are grateful for what you have around you.
You life is enriched by more things than previously.
It is not uncommon to cut back on things when you feel they are going in the right direction, often that's the time to kick it up a notch or at the very least keep the same. Up your IC and DB coach time a bit and you'll feel better, maybe try just one or the other and see if the midway house helps? They are tools to help you, so use them wisely, those who use them as a crutch often end up in a very sorry state, never really shedding their neediness, it's simply redirected.
If your H is not pressing any more, so what? If it takes until Jan/Feb to come to court, so what?
Step back and let it be, enjoy your full life and wait to see wha happens. You seem quite patient and then sometime agitated, allow the "chilled" beckyb to remain dominate and you'll feel so much better.
Who knows what is around the corner for you? Worrying about it won't help, so relax and enjoy the calm and your batteries will be fully charged for whatever comes at you. Plus you'll have an inner peace that will give you the good grace to cope and at the same time thrive.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
