We sometimes feel as we don't want to rock the boat by doing whatever necessary to get the ball moving and we think we are making matters worst, but in reality things are already worst, we are just waiting on "them" to make the choices for us... why?
We need to make our own choices and move on from this.
If we are meant to be together they will come back, but lets not wait. We have our lives to live, we deserve to be happy, this was not our choice but we must grab it by the horns and live and learn.
I'm sorry to be so blunt, but that is the attitude I have today, we have gone through so much, its time for us to take charge.