I haven read the LL books but I have read DB and DR. In those books the advocate doing what works. Will these actions work? I mean, drawing back from someone that craves intimacy just seems backwards. I'm not sure and I'm no vet but it still doesn't sit with the goal setting. It's still focused on your W. Why not try something for you? Like learn a new skill or a new hobby or something?
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
