Becoming the Anchor, Part 2

[Mona52]

((((Judy))))
When my H had an A, she did get pregnant, and he moved in with her, in a different state.
Like just about everyone here, we really truly understand the depths of pain, not to mention about a billion other emotions strangling you. I promise this will pass. It will never go away, but it will pass.
I will not bother telling you to do anything or giving you advice on how to move forward. You get a free pass to just get through the next few weeks. I think if you try and push through this too quickly, it will just come back and get you. You do not have to wallow in pain, but you need to feel it to get to the other side.

I strongly suggest you do not make any kind of decision at all about your M now. It is ok to decide not to answer if you want to save it or not. Making a firm decision to D or not to right now may come back to haunt you after you are under control again. Just make a firm decision to make it through the next 2 weeks.

I am really sorry.