Posting encouragement on someone else's thread a few minutes ago made me realize why participating here is such a good thing.
It's so hard to see through our own fog in our own sitches. So much easier to see the strengths and weaknesses, the fruitful and unfruitful DB-ing others are doing because we're more objective with them.
Got to where I'm posting things to other people and a voice in my head asking...Well if that's what they should be doing, isn't that what you should be doing too?
This has given me strength and clarity to do what needs to be done and do it right.
Hopefully I will do that
You know why this is true?
On other threads you are completely detached.
Once you get to that point with yourself then it is also easier to see too!
