I understand what you are saying. I am trying to let go. I guess my thought process is that I wanted her knowing that I will always be willing to hear what she is thinking. You may be right it could get seen as pursuing.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15