Goal 2 revisited from an earlier post:

Goal 2: When she hugs me or touches me in a loving way – spontaneously and not out of pity.

My action is to distance myself - not pursue. Her main LL is physical touch and she also likes to give physical touch especially when she hurts. If she is hurting when I distance she will pursue. She has a history of this. In 2012 she even offered to pluck my eyebrows and ears and brush my hair...wtf! and gave me the occasional hug. Lets see what happens.



Last edited by isittoolate; 10/13/15 03:40 PM.
Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16