I disagree. I think the problem is that relationships take work, they are hard. I may not have been the best husband in the world, but at the end of the day I do not think it was ever as bad as she claims it was. WAS's usually walk due to some outside encouragement. Rarely is it "I've had all I can take", reading peoples welcome threads almost always scream "WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR" and they tend to not want to believe it until things are past the breaking point.
I am so worried that you might be right. My husband is not the type and has assured me repeatedly that there is no other women. (I know that everyone says that). For me, ow is my boundary and I can guarantee that he would be dead to me. My marriage was never good enough to forgive something like that, so if I knew I would move on like you and not look back. The problem is, I don't know. He has other issues...I'm pretty sure alcoholism, and ocd and some health issues (IBS and cardiac problems). that really seems to impair his life. But then again, the signs are all there that there is something not right and maybe ow. I have no way of knowing. When I talk to him I believe him in my gut (he was always honest) but when I don't talk to him and see the signs it shows affair, although he always had weird behaviors even when we first dated due to the ocd. Why would he just not tell me? Maybe he is devious enough to know not to rock the boat so I don't demand the financials I'm entitled to. Have you ever seen a mlc where there was no other person?
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
