Becoming the Anchor, Part 2

[dday]

I totally get the feeling of shock. I have a lot of denial too. I can't believe it's happening and feel like it isn't over for me.

Continue focusing on your growth as a person. That is THE awesome part of this. If you have to change, why not make it for the better? Why not make yourself stronger, healthier, happoer, etc.

We have to focus on that, and of course the kids. They are everything right now, since I don't have W. When I have them, I try and be great for them. When I don't have them, I am trying to focus on me.

If H/W comes back for guilt, money, etc. Doesn't matter to me, as long as they become happy about being there and want to be in M, it will all be ok. At least that is my take on it.

Good luck Ancaire, take it one step at a time