question for the day.

I know we all hope the W will one day realize that maybe it wasnt the lbs fault she felt a certain way and like she missed out on something. We all hope that they will come and approach us about this. My question is how do we make sure they know you will be there if she does realize this and she should always feel she can approach us without making it seem like we will always be just waiting. not sure if that even makes sense.

I have heard times where the wife realized things but was ashamed and never said anything or they thought the lbs was to far gone and it would not work.

I just want to make sure my wife knows that when things move forward she can always come talk to me about things no matter where we are at the time. Do i just flat out tell her this?


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15