Yeah, everything has got to be genuine. It's no good going home to night, ripping off her nightie and acting like something out of 'Fifty Shades'. It'll come across as false and you'll not be able to keep it up (no pun intended!).

Stop snooping. If you do find anything, it's only gonna hurt you. I learned that really early. My W isn't in an A, but she has a sister who is poison and the things I found her saying about me really piqued.

Lastly, this is a marathon not a sprint. Take your time.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015