Where to begin? Part 2

[Dawgs]

So, not a whole lot to report from the weekend. It seemed very friendly but not a whole lot else. I haven't tried to get a temperature check in quite some time. She talked of all this stuff she wants to do with the house - as in new floors, cabinets, and paint.

Something I have noticed, the only time she ever really comes close to "attacking" (for lack of a better word) is when we are in counseling. I mean, she will - very rarely now - say, "well, for xx years you didn't...", but that's few and far between now.

I know we are working our "separation" now, but in house its kind of difficult. She said - if it wasn't odd or whatever due to our situation - that she has tickets for us to go to one of the holiday parties at her work.

OK, can somebody explain this... I slipped a little yesterday. We were working outside, and quite honestly she was looking pretty damn hot in her workout clothes, so I mentioned something about how good a stress and tension reliever it would be for a good ol' roll in the hay, to which she mentioned something about boundaries. So, then I couldn't just leave well enough alone and said well, it would be just that and its great exercise, too...and then she said something to the effect, if its just exercise, then she should be able to do it with whoever she chooses in a laughing sort of way. Now, knowing how my mind races, sent my alarms off. I then said NO. I know this is a stupid question, but I need to some mind-easing advice - is that something to be concerned about or would ya'll take it as joking?