good point DWH. I actually tend to spin things negatively in these types of situations so I already came up with a few reasons why she might be contacting them which are not good.
The SIL I am referring to above is my brothers wife not my wife's sister. My wife never lost touch with her family. The fact she contacted her and my sister is odd. I didn't ask about what and I really do not even want to know.
I am just going to remove this from my mind I think.