That is my concern. Now that I have taken action to retain a lawyer that has given him confirmation that he can move on with OW. I did clearly state that I was retaining a lawyer to ensure all financial needs of kids were met. Clearly he did not hear the words cause he then went and signed a lease for an apartment so how he can pay his share for kids, house, vacation home, and university costs PLUS apartment???? But the "action" of lawyer to him meant move on?
So of course now I am second guessing myself. I do not want any of this.
