Definitely have no expectations. Not saying this is the case with your W at all, but my WW recently reconnected with her sisters, after months of almost no contact. I found out it was because they finally agreed to meet the OM she has been living with. As you can imagine, I was less than thrilled to get that news. In your case, with no solid proof of OM, it could mean anything. Just wanted to let you know not to read too much into your W getting in touch with people; it's impossible to know the motivation. Stay strong - seems like you're doing well overall.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.