She Wants Me to Leave....3rd Time in 4 Years

[NDY]

HI IS
Goals 1-3 are all about your W and your R and not about you. Took me a while to understand the difference so here goes. Remember I'm not a vet and may well get canned here.

While your goals are about your WAW and your R you are making two classic mistakes. The first is total attachment. You are fully attached and she will sense this. And it will turn her off. Second, you have expectations on the goals that are out with your control. You cannot control nor really influence your WAW's actions. This isn't the point of goal setting. Goal setting is for you and only you.

Think about goal 1. How can you achieve this and want if she doesn't comply? See ow you have expectations on HER behaviour?

I'd re think them if I were you.