Goal 1: When my W says she would like Us or Her to see a MC Goal 2: When she hugs me or touches me in a loving way – spontaneously and not out of pity Goal 3: When she complements me on a change I have made i.e. more QT with the kids, how I look or dress. Goal 4: to get some sleep – preferably without sleeping pills
Action 1: Difficult one at the moment as she will not go to an MC – suggestions welcome. I will talk to my MC tomorrow to see if she has any suggestions Action2: Detach and see if she follows – I suspect at the moment she will cherish the space I give her. Action 3: Spend more time with the kids, Tell them I Love them, ring them when away, keep exercising, buy a few new pieces of clothes.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
