Zelda - Dog Days are Over

[Vanilla]

Would you pop in on mustardsend. Please.


I sense she is struggling with a sweet cycle.

Thanks

V

[Zelda09]

No V, I didn't respond. There was just nothing to say. He wants to start a sweet cycle by telling me how angry he is with me? For what, not putting up with his crap and because it helps to project and blame?

Heading over to Mustard.

[Vanilla]

Watch out for the next tactic. Negging clearly hasn't worked in triggering a guilt trip loop.

Thanks Z for visiting Msd.

V

[Ggrass]

Well done z!

There is nothing to gain by taking on how angry he is, you tryed that like me and it didn't work.

To change it nc and just power on he needs to fix him, regardless of what name it has.

[Zelda09]

Absolutely right, GG. I'm no longer interested in the labels, either. NC is beautiful.

[Ggrass]

I love the whole peace and quiet no more venting rants lasting an hour!

[Zelda09]

I think I will be taking a break from the board for a bit and wanted to leave a post thanking everyone for your constructive feedback and support over the last year or so. V, most of all.

I realized that coming here brings up a lot of pain, and I just feel too many upsetting feelings in reading of the other situations out there- it makes it all too raw again and I need to heal all the way. I hope to be able to contribute more positively in the future. So glad for this forum.

[Vanilla]

Enjoy your time of peace.

Let us know you are OK occasionally.

V

[Bob723]

Hi Zelda, thinking of you.

[Vanilla]

Thank you for letting me know you are ok.

Stay well, you deserve the best.

Very