So what about the next few days:

Avoid any further R talk.
Get myself sorted out so i can go to London for a day
No calling or texting her
Dont sit on the sofa with her tonight to watch TV - a 180 and a small detachment - though she will see this as me blanking her.
I will try to make myself busy.

I will make kids food after school....and myself but not W.
Then wife will take them to kickboxing at 6 - then she does some jogging with friends. I will go to gym and get back later.

Pack my bag for my night away and go to bed early.

Need to read about detachment and LRT and 180s and set goals. I need to reread my old threads and this one and straighten out my thoughts


Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16