This is devastating and a great shock. I am sorry that your mom has to go through this. I am sorry that you have to relive this though someone you love. I do not have any great advice or words, but I do want you to know that there are people out there that share the same beliefs about infidelity that you do. I think it is the ultimate betrayal and I would not do that to my worst enemy, let alone someone I loved.
There is another post about this called "Telling the other mans wife" by Fly man. I agreed with you that the person being cheated on should have the right to know, but I was in the minority.
I just found out this afternoon from my MIL, that my husbands father who died a few years ago had left her and ran around with other women when my husband was young and then came back to her. I had no idea, my husband has no idea. It was shocking for me to learn this about someone I had such respect for. While our news today is not quite the same, I get how bad it feels to come to terms with how few people are trustworthy in life.
Last edited by JulieH; 10/13/1503:18 AM.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
