I have to agree with the girls here. The tirades scare women. They scare kids. They aren't something that people should become normalized or accustomed to. They are immature at best. And they produce an undercurrent of instability and tension in every relationship.
The guy doing it feels better afterword. It's a release. But it's not a healthy one. The wife and kids only feel fear from the person they should always trust to protect them.
A man should be a man and always protect, speak firmly but softly, and be strong but gentle in all things.