Hi Sandie

You have a long memory and were correct of course.

Sadly the fundamental issue of our marriage was not addressed after Reconciling - a sex starved marriage. I should have insisted on MC and worked things through with W. Instead I got caught in 2nd Honeymoon syndrome.

Things are at a low ebb even lower than 2012 so what can I do differently or the same?

After tonight there will be no more pursuing or reasoning or pleading.
I will concentrate on validation (i'm good at it) and much more eye contact.
I need to set three simple goals
I need to concentrate on the welfare of our Boys.
I want to get the most out of my MC - meeting on Wed
I need to eat well - lost 7 pounds in a week
Exercise to reduce stress/anxiety
Not mention R or look for temperature check
Try to work out how i can become the best Man in her eyes(Not H)

More after some sleep

Sandie - thanks for reading - it helps to know someone is out there.


Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16