You have a long memory and were correct of course.
Sadly the fundamental issue of our marriage was not addressed after Reconciling - a sex starved marriage. I should have insisted on MC and worked things through with W. Instead I got caught in 2nd Honeymoon syndrome.
Things are at a low ebb even lower than 2012 so what can I do differently or the same?
After tonight there will be no more pursuing or reasoning or pleading. I will concentrate on validation (i'm good at it) and much more eye contact. I need to set three simple goals I need to concentrate on the welfare of our Boys. I want to get the most out of my MC - meeting on Wed I need to eat well - lost 7 pounds in a week Exercise to reduce stress/anxiety Not mention R or look for temperature check Try to work out how i can become the best Man in her eyes(Not H)
More after some sleep
Sandie - thanks for reading - it helps to know someone is out there.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16