Well, I know you didn't take my advice the first time you were here. Did you take Bond's advice and get you and your W into MC when your first reconciled, or did you tune that out also?

If this is happening on an average of once a year, there is a much more serious problem than what you seem to think. If the larger percent of her complaints is about sex, then I suspect when she returned from her trip and "suddenly" had changed her mind about R........there was more than met the eye. Especially when she gave you a time limit. That's the same as placing you on probation.

So, what do you plan to do differently this time around..........or do you plan to do anything differently than past times?






It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!