So for now I will concentrate on:

- Being a better Father for my 2 sons - this has already been noticed by W - I cuddle and kiss them goodnight and have been more affectionate.
- Some DIY jobs around the house
- detaching - read about it and implement it
- becoming less available to the W.
- Appearing As If I'm Happy
- more exercise (though I am already very fit)
- getting the most from my counselling sessions - W asked when my next one was - It is Wednesday - I brought it forward one day
- Reading this forum

I will add to this when my head gets straight.


Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16