You are so very welcome, Py.

I spoke to DS yesterday and want to tell him. STBX and I have agreed we will do this together. The next time I see him face to face will be in December.

I do want to let him know. I initially didn't as before, I felt that if i didn't tell him it wasn't happening.

Any advice on how to approach this? I think he should now know ASAP and not wait until Christmas.


Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18
EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13
Move to work abroad Sept 14
re establish contact with OW while away
D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15