He came over this afternoon to watch our daughter while I went to therapy. They we're gonna make pizza and I texted him earlier to make some for me too. He was in a hurry to get out and run when I came back, but he made pizza for me. He also talked to our D about going to the movies again and bringing me this time. She really misses spending time with the both of us. She didn't want me to leave when he came. I'm happy to do it, I really just wanted it to come from him.
I told my therapist about still having hope for our M and she said something about thinking about the criteria for getting back together. And it made me realize I don't want him back the way he is now -he needs therapy and to work out a few things as well. It kinda made me feel better. Regardless, I think us LBS' are doing all the soul searching, the growing and becoming better versions of ourselves etc. Meanwhile, at least my H, is the same "ol mess", who has thrown himself into a new R or A.
