Ghost56 - thanks for the thoughts. I wish I wasnt here but I am.

One 'new' complaint that came out of tonights discussion is that W always had to fix our problems especially regarding Sex.

She talked out the lack of sex, how sex was boring, she didnt want it on Saturday morning as it was too predictable, that she bought the sex toys and suggested new underwear. None of it made a difference. I agreed with her and validated her feelings and said it was true she had tried very very hard

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16