Yes, I understand the injustice too Jim. But here's the thing. I truly do not believe there is an escape from things ultimately catching up with you. Sometimes the Karma bus takes a while to arrive. A good while. But arrive it does.

My take on your sitch is that OM is probably working his socks off to be a good partner just now. But I don't think decent guys come into a marriage in the way that OM's do, so my guess is that the parts of himself he is currently hiding will come out at some point and then what happens is anyone's game.

I don't write any of this with glee because your kids are at the heart of all of this. But I do believe this is what is likely to happen. Maybe not this month or next - but at some point down the line, likely yes.

You're doing well Jim....take care xx

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Me 48 H 46
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BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus