Draft your letter. Then wait X number of months. Then give it to her.

Responding now is similar to a form of pursuit. Draft something you firmly believe in and then when the smoke clears give it to her.

For an example of the power a letter can have, check out Crimson's threads. It was the ice breaker required to start "courting" again. However, I think you should be mostly detached at the point of sending, and fully understand that there is no guarantees.


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015