I think if I look at this as an experiment it will help me detach. And I promise I am not spending too much time on this, just being a little more observant and watching my words and attitude which is what I should be doing any way.
Don't apologize for spending too much time on this. I think these are the things you should spend time on. Experiments (IMHO) are good. Experiment away. And the reason I think they are good, is bc it isn't about doing what you've always done, it is about doing what works. Experiment to understand what works. Then do those things.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
