WhyUs,
You know, to be honest, I guess my intent would be to make sure XW knows that I am okay with D and am moving on. On some level, I feel like the email is an attempt to solicit some kind of reaction from XW.

So, yeah, I probably shouldn't send it. Looks like you helped me answer my own question.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15