LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M

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Yeah....I definitely have her under a microscope. I find myself looking for signs that the actions I'm taking are making a difference. I want to make sure if I'm not seeing results that I don't waste time before moving to a different strategy. But in the end I know these actions are for myself. Trying to detach and I believe I'm making progress. I'm definitely not giving her anything. I'm about half way through the book and have been GAL-ing at least twice a week without letting her know what I'm doing. I've also been hitting the gym 4-5x week. I started 180's at least 2 months ago.

My ultimate goal is R but I'm trying to make sure to recognize small victories/steps along the way to keep from becoming discouraged. I have hope but also realize it's her choice. These small steps give me hope.