Journaling. On Saturday I took my 8 yr to the zoo. He wanted W to come too so I had him ask W simply because she did not seem thrilled when I shared my plans for the day. When I was getting ready, she came into MBR and told me that when I leave next week for business (work) trip she was going to move my stuff out of the MBR and move her stuff back in. She said because I had it for last 5 years to myself. I said I was not having this discussion with her and walked out. In my mind, I was think HELL NO if I am sleeping in the spare bedroom where you text and FaceTime OM at night. The day at the zoo was fine but she did something out of the norm, that night she left the house at 9:30pm, saying she was going to see a movie with her friends.. really? Perhaps but how am I to believe that?