i have considered this appraoch many times and feel i kind of ben this way and now she is getting ready to move out. maybe i should be this way only when she contacts me? let her initiate everything? he said that if i am coming across cold, why would she want to come back to me. I did explain to him the dynamic of when we first got together the fact i did not chase her even though i really wanted her and that drew her to me. He said that is good to repeat, but still be there for her like she was a sister and you would offer and do things for her.
Very confusing to try and figure this out.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
