have a question for everyone out there. i had a session with DB coach this morning and some of the recommendations he has is a little different than what we mostly hear on these boards. He is saying that NC is not what he recommends he thinks i should be able to show that i am a good friend and can build a relationship out of it. He thinks i should offer to help her with some things.

what are everyones thoughts on this?

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15