Can ALL marriages be saved Vol. 2

[mahhhty]

In your old thread you wrote...

Still a little confused about how to DB from a distance. Anybody have any advice or experience with this?

I don't think you should be. You have received the advice over and over. Detach and GAL. It truly is that simple.

You've received some great advice. I wanted to point to these ones, which spoke to me...

All you need to do now is take that focus WAY off him and what he thinks and what he feels. You need to get some nice and healthy obsessions about things just for YOU. I promise you, nothing in this life is impossible. Right now you have the gift of time to NOT worry about him and aim for things in life you want. aim BIG, even if you fall short you still will be much higher.

Henry Ford said this... If you think you can or you thank you can't, you are right. This is very similar to Mona's comment. Carry some powerful images of what your future is like, and how it feels. Don't worry about the steps to take you there. Just feel gratitude when thinking of your future images.

Maybe you could ask yourself that question to help you to detach and as it was mentioned in previous posts. Focus on you, embrace the time he is away to become a better you.

In other words. Detach and GAL. Focus on you.

There was plenty of other good quotes in what Avanti and Mona wrote.