...He still has most of his stuff in this apartment. Would it be counter productive to ask him to remove all personal belongings before he leaves? I really want it gone, so the apartment will feel like mine, but I know it will irritate him and am I not supposed to avoid that?
There's no right or wrong here, do what you feel is the right thing for you. Some go as far as changing the locks because they want to feel safe and secure.
If he gets upset, so what, he's having an A!
Originally Posted By: Gmum
...sometimes get a little confused on how to DB according to my situation. I'm friendly and upbeat, but not super talkative with him. ARGGHHH!!! What to do?!?
Do exactly what you are doing, unless he is the one who always initiates the conversation, in which case consider doing a 180 and kicking off more conversations, but nothing to do with your R or M.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
