You will live in a home full of love and met needs.That is sure. How long and with whom is not known.

I too am not willing to do the in house separation thing with all the issues that go with it. I have put up with enough long enough to not endure that too. I understand.

Best wishes to you

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together